Thus, mutual consultations between the husband and wife on all family problems would help to create an atmosphere of trust and understanding in resolving whatever issues that may arise.
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The Buddha's Advice to a Couple I. The Wife In advising women about their role in married life, the Buddha appreciated that the peace and harmony of a home rested largely on a woman. His advice was realistic and practical when he explained a good of day-to-day characteristics which a woman should or should not cultivate.
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In the days of the Buddha, other religious teachers also spoke on the duties and obligations Beautiful ladies wants sex tonight Pennsylvania a wife towards her husband — stressing particularly on the duty of a wife bearing an off-spring for the husband, rendering faithful service and providing conjugal happiness.
Some communities are very particular about having a son in the family.
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This advice, given over twenty five centuries ago, still stands good for today.
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Knowing the psychology of the man who tends to consider himself superior, the Buddha made a remarkable change and uplifted the status of a woman by a simple suggestion that a husband should honor and respect his wife. A husband should be faithful to his wife, which means that a husband should fulfill and maintain his marital obligations to his wife thus sustaining the confidence in the marital relationship in every sense of the word. The husband, being backpage shemale dothan bread-winner, would invariably stay away from home, hence he should entrust the domestic or household duties to the wife who should be considered as the keeper and the distributor of the property and the home economic-administrator.
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There was mutual understanding, and the relationship was stable because each knew exactly what his or her role was in the partnership.
The "love" that some husbands and wives try to show Lick some mature woman having sex on sunday by embracing each other in public does not necessarily indicate true love or understanding.
In the past, although married couples did not express their love or inner feeling publicly, they had a deep even unspoken understanding and mutual respect for each.
The ancient customs which people had in certain countries that the wife must sacrifice her life after her husband's death and also the custom which prevents a widow from remarrying is foreign to Buddhism. Buddhism does Beautiful ladies looking orgasm ME regard a wife as being inferior to a husband.
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It is true that in the past women had been treated very badly, but this was due more to the ignorance on the part of men than the inherent weakness in the concept of depending on women to bring up children. Women have been struggling for ages to gain equality with men in the field of education, the professions, politics and other avenues.
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They are now at par with men to a great extent. The male generally tends to be aggressive by nature and the female more emotional.
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But I do believe that woman will not make her contribution to the world by mimicking or running a race with man. She can run the race, but she will not rise to the great heights she is capable of by mimicking man. She has to be the complement of man. A mother's duty is to love, care and protect the child, even at extreme cost. This is Housewives wants hot sex Anawalt self-sacrificing love that the Buddha taught.
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Show your love, but temper it with a disciplined hand — the child will understand.
Unfortunately, amongst present-day parents, parental love is sadly lacking. The mad rush for material advancement, the liberation movements and the aspiration for equality have resulted in many mothers ing their husbands, spending their working hours in offices and shops, rather than remaining at home tending to their off-spring.
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They imbibe what they impart.